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WORKING WITH SELF COMPASSION

Self-Compassion Exercises in
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

by Dr. Jan Newman

Many of our psychologists use ACT when working with teens and adults online in throughout the United States

North Carolina, Georgia, Texas, Colorado, Florida, and several other states under PSYPACT.

“The core of mental toughness is actually self-compassion. People who are mentally tough stay mentally tough because they don’t slip easily into shame or self-criticism or self-loathing.”
— BRENE BROWN
Dr. Kristin Neff talks about self-compassion at Google
Self-compassion is the master skill. It’s a superpower in life and work. It’s the antidote to shame.
Self-compassion is the hardest skill in ACT to master, but it packs the biggest punch, in my experience. Put simply, self-compassion is the skill of acknowledging pain and treating ourselves with genuine kindness and caring.

According to Kristin Neff, a leading researcher on self-compassion, self-compassion has three component processes (and shadow processes):

  • Self-kindness (vs. self blame)

  • Mindfulness (vs. overidentification with internal experience)

  • Common humanity (vs. isolation)

“Self-compassion is the master skill. It’s a superpower in life and work. It’s the antidote to shame.”
— Dr. J
SELF-COMPASSION EXERCISES
Podcast Episodes
Resources from Dr. Russ Harris

(to access some resources you may need to sign up for his email list)

Self-Compassion Meditations from Dr. Kristin Neff
Assessments and Quizzes
Other Resources from Dr. Neff
“When we’re kind to ourselves, we create a reservoir of compassion that we can extend to others.”
— Brene Brown
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We specialize in working with high-performing professionals, executives, lawyers, entrepreneurs, physicians and other healthcare professionals, creatives, athletes, and students (college, graduate, and professional programs). We will soon be offering for high-achieving teens who want and are a good fit for online or virtual therapy. Our therapists are all doctoral-level psychologists.  Depending on the therapist you see, we can offer help with stress and burnout, anxiety, trauma and PTSD, ADHD, and depression as well as vicarious trauma, life transitions, and relationship problems. Learn more about the cost of online therapy on our investment page. Getting the best therapist for your needs no matter where you live and being able to fit it into your busy schedule might be the secret. Online therapy may be the answer you’ve been looking for! We use evidence-based treatment methods including ACT, DBT, RO-DBT, CBT, ERP, and trauma-informed therapies.

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